Nicole Matusow
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Written by Nicole Matusow, LCSW
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Relationships
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Society & Culture
Limerence
Limerence
May 2026
Limerent While Married
Limerence
Feb 2025
Limerence and the Repetition Compulsion
Limerence
Jan 2024
How Your Limerence is Fueled by Shame and Self-Abandonment
Limerence
Feb 2023
Limerence: A Psychic Retreat
Limerence
Apr 2022
Exploring the Origins of Limerence as Self-Soothing
Limerence
Jul 2021
Limerence and Splitting
Relationships
Jun 2020
When Humans Attack Part II: Attacking Those You Love
Limerence
May 2020
Limerence as a Resistance to Intimacy
Inner Life
Jan 2020
When Humans Attack, Part I: Self-Attack
Relationships
Sep 2019
How do you have a great relationship? Practice, kid, practice.
Inner Life
May 2019
To feel is human, to allow yourself to feel, divine.
Limerence
Dec 2018
Limerence: The Agony and the Ecstasy of Our Earliest Addiction
Society & Culture
Nov 2018
Can't we all just get along? Apparently not.
Society & Culture
Apr 2018
Artistic
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Digression
Society & Culture
Jan 2018
(In)visible women.
Relationships
Sep 2017
Wanna kill desire? Add pressure to your sex life.
Inner Life
Jan 2017
What's black and white and gray all over? Hopefully, your thought process.
Relationships
Aug 2016
Do you express your feelings or keep them in a bottle on your night table?
Inner Life
Mar 2016
If you worry like it's your job, it's time to work on your resume
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